Forget what I said last week about how I was going to do my Shopping List features with one seller only - as I'm away on holiday soon and really busy I'm combining my Saturday Shopping List post with one of my normal, rambling posts as I have serious issues to cover .... oh, yes.
I have three children .... boys and no TV ... and whilst we're at it ... no game boys, no X-box, no Nintendo and no other small boxy square things that entertain. When I was growing up there was a children's
tv programme called "Why don't you switch off the
tv and do something more interesting instead" .... yup, it was quite a mouthful.... so this post is dedicated to just that. My eldest son has just turned nine and we have been without a television for 10yrs now. It started because we moved to a house with terrible reception downstairs so the TV went up to our bedroom. We never watched it up there so we got rid of it. My husband and I are a total geeks because of it! We love jigsaws, scrabble, doing crosswords, reading, talking, painting
Warhammer .......... but this is not about us adults it is about the children. Television
has become the new babysitter. I know people who, on a beautiful sunny day, still have the TV on in the corner of the room and the kids are sat there glued to it. Or the kids are playing a game but with it on in the background - causing them to stop mid-game to stand and gawp when the adverts come on. TURN IT OFF!!! I am proud of my children - they play beautifully. There is something magical about watching them (aged 9,6 and 4) all engrossed in a game together. The 6 and 4 year old play board games together. Okay - in their own way! They get out the Monopoly and make up their own ways of playing. And they do it for hours - seriously. The 9yr old may be reading all this time - he reads and reads and reads - or he might be outside kicking a football or skateboarding around using an old broken broom handle as a punting pole. Then they write, and draw and colour and ask me to set them maths sums to answer. In the picture, above and to the right, my eldest and my husband are playing their latest obsession - a game called
Memoir 44 - a strategy
board game using real
senarios from WWII. Not only is it a war game but there are tanks and men with guns to use as game pieces - oh, and sandbags. These are
popular for some reason. You can also buy add-on
senarios and different terrains for more Western Front
anihilation. The game has won numerous awards over time and is good for ages 8 upwards although younger ones can join in too, with help. You can just see the feet of the younger two watching - they help to roll the dice and other er..'helpful' things! It all sounds sickly sweet
and perfect but it is how it is. I don't 'school' them when they are at home - its just what they find to do when there is nothing for them to do. They are mellow, laid back, imaginative, creative, filthy, muddy, dirty, ripped, grazed, bruised and gorgeous. When they do say they are bored I tell them to stare at the walls until they think of something to do. When they have friends over I always get asked if they can 'watch something' - "NO!!! You've come over to play!" is my reply. To the left there is the little play house in our garden that my eldest has converted into a 'reading room' - we spent a great weekend cleaning it all out, painting it and hanging some of my
wooden decorations up in it. Below are some great ideas, from
Etsy sellers, for other things for children to do instead of relying on one of those box things for entertainment.
Orangemoontoys makes fabulous shadow puppets in all designs - turn off the lights, rig up a torch and re-create a sea-battle with these wonderful underwater ones. Get them outside and running around with this clever game from
Sallyscreations or send them on one of
Mykangaroos scavenger hunts around the house and garden.
Craftpudding supplies all sorts of rubber stamps for putting stories together or making cards to send to friends.
Bombus covers notebooks in wonderful decoupage cartoon strips and maps - let a child write and draw in their own - keep all the notebooks somewhere safe so you can look back on them when they are older - remember to date them. Come rain or shine chuck them out in the garden - they can make a camp and take up residence in this fantastic
teepee from
Babypop. Switch off the entertainments, provide a few basics and leave them to it - it is amazing what they will
invent, how much calmer and how their concentration will improve.
Don't get me wrong - this isn't a perfect household - I don't sit down for hours and play with them, I don't bake with them or let them learn by helping me doing things round the house - and I shout at them a bit too - I'm a forgetful, scatty, paint-splattered mum who should spend more time with her children but I am proud that I have given them the 'boredom space' to become these wonderful individuals that they are starting to be.
So - here we go! First up is a shop that I am very interested in! Stampingsisters. The shop sells decorative metal stamps - at present only a small selection but I love them already plus it promises more hard to find stamps and tools. I love stamps and tools! I'm a sucker for a tool! Hurry up Stampingsisters! Load more into your shop! I can't wait to see what else you have lurking! Apart from my wooden painted stuff I dabble with silver PMC and I need some tiny letter stamps - do you have any? Second up is JewelChunks. I'm feeling a bit autumny and chilly and these hats are the cutest and coolest ever. I love Jewelchunks' profile too! Lastly, this week, we have Danaruth, whose jewellery I would happily go bankrupt for! I am usually underwhelmed when it comes to jewellery as Etsy is oozing with it and much of it is a much of a muchness (!). I had real trouble chosing one piece to show you as I love so many of them .. oh, okay, I can't resist adding another .....
*PHEW*!! I've done it! I feel better now! There are loads of Saturday Shopping Lists for you to see - check out the list in my sidebar - great blogs featuring great Etsians. I'm off now to write up my next post about my holiday, a very large custraceon called Eddie and a bright yellow kayak! See you again soon!
